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Spiritual Healing & Right Relationship

On Thursday, December 3, at 5:30, you can join me and others to inaugurate the Season of Advent with an annual Penance Service that emphasizes spiritual preparation, waiting, and clarity. The service will be held at the Alvin Brooks Center, 5401 Troost Avenue, on the campus of Rockhurst University, that provides convenient parking and easy access from the street. As well as being joined by Jesuit priests who will hear confessions and grant absolution of sins, counselors and spiritual directors will be present to answer inquiries and assist sojourners that seek direction in life, whether to deal with a particular gnawing issue or to connect with ongoing guidance through individual mentoring or group companionship.
There are numerous forms of spiritual healing. Catholics traditionally start with the Sacrament of Reconciliation. This sacrament has gone through various iterations through the centuries, sometimes emphasizing confessing, at other times forgiving; still other times the focus was on doing penance, receiving healing, or experiencing conversion. “Reconciliation” comes from a Greek word meaning “eyelash to eyelash,” i.e., “re” means again, “con” means with, “cilia” means eyelid or eyelash; in other words, we return to face ourselves. In facing ourselves, we also face God while looking at our sins or shortcomings or struggles. Read the Full Post.

In 'nun girl summer,' a thank-note
to the sisters of Journey House:
'I wouldn't have made it'

A thank-you note to two specific women, longtime nurses who recently left Kansas City. Sister Rose McLarney co-founder of Journey to New Life, and Sister Fran Voivedich, who lived with women who’d just gotten out of prison at

Journey House, along with Rose and three other sisters. Read the Substack feature article.

A photo of Sister Rose McLarney as a young nurse.

Sister Rose McLarney 

A current day photo of Sister Fran Voivedich.

Sister Fran Voivedich

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Episode 97 of the Upon This Rock Podcast with Father Don Farnan

Saint Thomas More (STM) Parish has a sister community relationship with San Andrés Itzapa, a rural parish in south-central Guatemala. STM Parishioners Phil Smith and Marla Byrne have visited frequently in recent decades, often leading groups on work retreats and pilgrimages of faith that support foreign friends. The STM group has escorted thousands of Kansas Citians, including over a thousand teenagers, to Central America to encounter brothers and sisters who struggle in ways that open their eyes and hearts.

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"In the end, these things are only required: that you act justly, that you love tenderly, and that you walk humbly with the Lord."

— The Prophet Micah

"We are like travelers who have forgotten
the name of our destination. We must return from where we came to discover where
we are going."

— G. K. Chesterton

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