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At Alvin Brooks Center

In partnership with Rockhurst University, we invite you to join Father Don Farnan for weekly Mass each Thursday at 12:15 p.m. at the Alvin Brooks Center Mabee Chapel (5401 Troost Avenue, Kansas City). All are welcome! Learn more about the Alvin Brooks Center.

This weekly gathering connects people from across parishes and the city to share in the Eucharist, strengthen community, and support ministries serving our urban-core neighbors. It's a simple but meaningful way to deepen faith and fellowship in the heart of Kansas City.

Make this part of your summer rhythm. Come as you are, bring a friend, and take a mid-day pause for prayer and community. Stay for conversation or step in for a quiet moment of prayer.

Alvin Brooks Center Mabee Chapel on the Rockhurst University Campus in Kansas City, Missouri
Alvin Brooks Center For Faith-Justice on the Rockhurst University Campus in Kansas City, Missouri

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Catholic Wedding Gap

Those who attend lots of Saturday weddings are familiar with the Catholic Wedding Gap; it refers to the time between an early afternoon church ceremony and evening reception. The two-to-three-hour frame has become part of our Catholic culture. During that afternoon time, guests usually assemble in small groups at bars, hotels, homes, or Airbnb’s until the bigger party begins. During that same period, bridal party and families usually take lots of pictures.

The gap exists because most newly married couples prefer their reception to begin with cocktails and toasts in the late afternoon, followed by dinner in the early evening, and dancing into the night. But most Catholic parishes have weekly confessions and a Sunday Vigil Mass around 4:00, forcing the Saturday wedding ceremony, along with its necessary preparation and clean-up, to get scheduled a few hours before the vigil gathering.  Read the Full Post.

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Upon This Rock Podcast

Episode 107 of the Upon This Rock Podcast with Father Don Farnan

Father Don and his sister, Barbie, drop a podcast about podcasts, particularly this podcast, Upon This Rock, as we pause operations to assess its impact and how the church can reach people in our twenty-first-century virtual society. They reminisce about messages from the hundred-plus conversations and how we can encourage people to talk with one another about matters of faith and faith that matters to us, our families and friends, our community, and our world.

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Upon This Rock Podcast

Episode 97 of the Upon This Rock Podcast with Father Don Farnan

Saint Thomas More (STM) Parish has a sister community relationship with San Andrés Itzapa, a rural parish in south-central Guatemala. STM Parishioners Phil Smith and Marla Byrne have visited frequently in recent decades, often leading groups on work retreats and pilgrimages of faith that support foreign friends. The STM group has escorted thousands of Kansas Citians, including over a thousand teenagers, to Central America to encounter brothers and sisters who struggle in ways that open their eyes and hearts.

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"In the end, these things are only required: that you act justly, that you love tenderly, and that you walk humbly with the Lord."

The Prophet Micah

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Saint Teresa of Avila.

"We are like travelers who have forgotten
the name of our destination. We must return from where we came to discover where
we are going."

G. K. Chesterton

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"I truly appreciate the use of musical references and other writings which you often use. I have been blessed to have attended small dinners and discussions where you have often used these same references to engage attendees. It always has left me with soul searching and a path to answering some very deep questions. Thank you for providing some more stepping stones."
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